Life changing idea 1:
God believes in us even when we don't believe in ourselves. Remember this, and you will find the way from darkness to light.
Life changing idea 2:
The next time you meet a person whose purpose is different from you, try to see this difference not as a threat but as a gift that grows you and creates new possibilities for you.
Life changing idea 3:
Follow your inner voice, as those who came before you did, and continue their walk by charging the ever-changing world with eternal values.
Life changing idea 4:
first part, then join; The distance between us, a distance that must be measured with vigorous precision, is what allows the parties in a relationship to grow.
Life changing idea 5:
In order to move forward after trauma and tragedy, one must first build the future - and only then approach the memory of the past.
Life changing idea 6:
You are as big as your ideals. You have the power to qualify beyond yourself - if you truly believe that beyond yourself there is something.
Life changing idea 7:
The deep crises in your life sometimes turn out to be times in which you meet the deepest truths and acquire the greatest of your strengths.
Life changing idea 8:
If you find yourself struggling with your faith, you are in good company:
We find with you Jacob who became Israel, the father of us all, the father of believers sons of believers.
Life-changing idea 9:
In the eyes of the believer, today's curse can be the beginning of tomorrow's blessing.
Life changing idea 10:
The hungry and the painful, the poverty and the sick are not holy, and God does not want us to put up with them but to be healed:
Let us distinguish between the holy and the profane.
Life-changing idea 11:
We are not prisoners of events; We are their active designers.
Life-changing idea 12:
Judaism allows us to live in a culture of kindness and hope. By working hard on ourselves we can earn forgiveness.
Life changing idea 13:
When we learn to listen to opinions different from our own, and understand that this does not reduce us but increases us, we discover a life-changing idea: the idea of disagreement for heaven's sake.
Life-changing idea 14:
Freedom is an achievement. It is a muscle that needs training, day after day: if you don't use it - it will atrophy.
Life-changing idea 15:
Learn your story, as a story told across generations is a gift. He who knows who he is, what he is and why, can navigate the deserts of time with courage and safety.
Life-changing idea 16:
There are no fast tracks. A sustainable achievement is acquired a long way, and what comes easily will be easily gone. And the hard way is forging.
Life-changing idea 17:
If you find yourself in a conflict that threatens to tear something apart, try to create an alliance between all the parties that will capture them around a common goal. There are things that can only be done together, and none of us can achieve them alone.
Life-changing idea 18:
If you want to change someone's behavior, you must get into their mindset, then say the word, or do the deed, that will speak to their feelings and not to ours.
Life-changing idea 19:
As much as the effort we put into what we do, so is our love. If you want people to appreciate something, let them participate in its creation. They will change him - and change themselves; They will make an effort - and therefore will love the fruit of their hands.
A life-changing idea 20:
When you experience suffering, the right question to ask is "It happened; So what should I do?” And the answer to this question is not a thought but an action.
Life-changing idea 21:
We must always conquer our feelings of anger - but sometimes we are required to show anger outwardly. Sometimes people need shock therapy to change their lives.
A life-changing idea 22:
Happiness lies beyond myself - in the strength of our relationships, in our connection to the community, and in what we give to others and others give to us.
Life-changing idea 23:
The highest achievement is not self-expression but self-limitation: clearing a space for something other and different from us.
A life-changing idea 24:
God has given each of us a task. Recognizing this mission, hearing God's call, is what gives life meaning and purpose.
Life-changing idea 25:
The more we praise the good in our lives, the more praiseworthy good we discover in our lives.
Life-changing idea 26:
The point that you see as your greatest weakness can become, if you sing with it, your greatest advantage.
Life-changing idea 27:
The way we use words shapes our social environment.
Life-changing idea 28:
In any relationship that is important to you, share praise daily. Seeing the good in others, and praising them for it, makes you and him better people, and strengthens the bond between you.
Life changing idea 29:
Some of us realize that our lives are not traveling on the right track, not because of a particular sin but as a general feeling of losing our way. The answer means returning home, to God.
Life-changing idea 30:
Clear principles and correct discipline help to establish and expand the order for the well-being of the child, the family and society. Love is not enough. Relationships need rules.
A life-changing idea 31:
Don't just rely on a to-do list; Use a journal. And if you want to experience the things that give life meaning, live the holidays and the Sabbaths of the Hebrew year.
A life-changing idea 32:
Don't ask "What can I gain?" but "what can I contribute?" Be a blessing to others - and you will find that your life is a blessing to you.
A life-changing idea 33.
Look for meaning - and in its wake you will discover strength and courage, fulfillment and peace
Life changing idea 34:
Remember the destination. This will help you distinguish between an opportunity to be jumped on and a temptation to be resisted.
Life changing idea 35:
The extent of our importance as the extent to which we make others feel important.
Life changing idea 36:
We tend to follow our neighbors and friends in our opinions and actions. So choose for your friends the people who are what you aspire to be.
Life changing idea 37:
Don't let negative emotions distort your worldview. To see the world as it is, not as you fear it might be, let faith overcome fear.
Life changing idea 38:
If you want to learn, grow, seek the truth and find freedom, look for places that welcome debate and respect those with a different opinion.
Life changing idea 39:
We are as the dust of the earth, but the spirit of God is in our nose. We make mistakes, and are still capable of greatness. We die, but the best of us lives on after us.
Life-changing idea 40:
In our uniqueness lies our universality. Only out of our unique identity can we make our unique contribution to humanity.
Life-changing idea 41:
If we really want to pass our heritage on to our children, we must teach them to love it.
A life-changing idea 42:
Faith is the call to be a subject and not an object, active and not passive, influencing the environment more than being influenced by it.
Life changing idea 43:
Life is a journey, not a destination. We must always prepare for new challenges that will take us out of our comfort zone. Life is growth.
Life changing idea 44:
If you want to change a person, make sure you are ready to help him when he needs your help, protect him when he needs your protection, and also see the good in him
Life-changing idea 45:
If you have the heart to extend the days of your love, build a structure of behaviors around it.
Life changing idea 46:
Listening is the greatest gift we can give to another person
Life changing idea 47:
Never define yourself as a victim. You cannot change the past, but you can change the future. There is always a choice, and he who musters the strength to choose can subdue fate.
Life-changing idea 48:
To lead means to serve. The greater the success of a leader, the greater the effort required of him to remember that he is in this position to serve others - and not them.
Life changing idea 49:
Never think that you don't have time to help a person in need who needs you.
A life-changing idea 50:
Make sure that the story you tell speaks to the loftiness of your aspirations and tell it as a matter of routine.
Life-changing idea 51:
Don't wait for the world to get better. Take the initiative. The world is waiting for you.
A life-changing idea 52:
Always, even after a lifetime of achievement, we have a second mountain to climb, and it may prove to be our main legacy to the world that will come after us.
Life changing idea 53:
If you want to change people's lives, speak to their feelings, not just their minds.
Ideas from two lives 56-54:
We are mortal; Therefore, every day in our lives is important. We are capable of failure; Therefore, from every mistake we can learn how to grow. We will not complete our journey; Therefore we must serve as an inspiration to others to continue what we started.
(From the book "Ideaions from Shnei Haim" by Rabbi Yonatan Zaks ztzel)